" Be who you are & say what you feel because those
who mind dont matter & those who matter dont mind "

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Hi, my name is jesslyn :D I'm a extremist, sometimes crazy, hyper & random.. Sometimes emo & quiet. I first cried on 260992.& I ♥ music & japanese food

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angela* amanda* bena* jeslyn* joelyn* joelle* kaixin* pohlern* shuhao* yujun* yz* ophelia* nxsa* mira*

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shuhui*

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cheesie* holly jean* xiaxue*

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Late Nights & Rantings
Tuesday, August 24, 2010, 12:25 AM

Couldn't sleep early for the past few days.. I also dont know why. Anyway, I have been thinking.. If nothing lasts forever, we should not try so hard. Right? I mean if one push push push push push push pushhhhhhh~! the other party would get v.stress out in the end. & as expected.. not a good ending. I'm saying this for only relationship issues but not only BGR but also, other relationships. For eg, the r/s between u & your parents & friendship.

Think about this :
If your parents are over concern (nag & care alot) = too much = ur stress = u getting irritated = u gg against them = bad r/s between your parents & you. True? Should be.. Thats how i felt..sometimes.

So, I think that one should not overshow their care_ness to their loved ones. They should, sometimes show more, sometimes show less. I think. But, again.. I dont think I can do that.. Cause, I think i'm an extremist. Either, all out or none at all.

Aiya !

So, all in all.. Life (now) is super complicated. Think i'm born in the wrong year. Should be born thousands of years back.. So, I would be able to lead a simple farmer life. But, then again.. it wouldn't be that simple or easy either.

Hence, we should cherish what we have now ! Like our family & loved ones. & try our best. << I know, contradicting ! But but, I shall rephrase. Try your best but dont give in your all (or step into their comfort zone)

I think life is just like that. Cant be too left, or too right. Must be just nice in the middle which most humans cant archieve.

Alright, i think tt i rant_ed enough. Getting sleepy. Should go be a 'piggy' now. Since its coming to 1am. Night night ppl (: