" Be who you are & say what you feel because those
who mind dont matter & those who matter dont mind "
Hi, my name is jesslyn :D I'm a extremist, sometimes crazy, hyper & random.. Sometimes emo & quiet. I first cried on 260992.& I ♥ music & japanese food
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angela* amanda* bena* jeslyn* joelyn* joelle* kaixin* pohlern* shuhao* yujun* yz* ophelia* nxsa* mira*
Others:
shuhui*
I'm a fan of:
cheesie* holly jean* xiaxue*
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Life is Fair ; When there is a hater, there will be a 'lover'
Saturday, October 23, 2010, 10:52 AM
I have always wanted to write about this topic but, I dint have the guts to finish writing it & posting it cause of certain past experiences. But.. Today, I decided to finish it as I suddenly have a great urge to do so. Also, since im sick now (cause of the haze) I can’t talk much so, I shall type my feelings out here. Everyone will have haters.. That’s what I believe in. Don’t care your smart or dumb, your pretty or ugly, your thin or fat, your short or tall, your black, white, yellow or brown; no matter what, you will still have at least one hater in your life. I got my first one this year & the second one soon after. Then, I was feeling so stress that I could have exploded. However, as unfair life seems to be, there will always be someone you can depend on, no matter how difficult life seems to be.
During that time period, god gave me a close friend who made my life so much better. She was always there even though being my friend then might be hard task to do as one have to face million of stares and untrue gossips. My family was also always there for me & very supportive and Im very grateful for that.
So, when you are feeling down, so down that you think you could have died.. Take a step back & appreciate what god has given you. & Things might not be as bad as it seems. As life is fair you see. In my opinion, it is. When life gives you a bad thing, God will give you a good thing to combat that bad thing and will make your life much better. You won’t die because of something as silly as that.
Even if the bad thing is not about friendship, and about love instead.. It is still the same, life is fair. Like the saying goes.. If the wrong don’t go, the right can’t enter. Even if you do not have another partner right after the break up, it doesn’t mean that god is unfair as im sure he had given you other good things as well such as your close friends & family. This is the case for me. Even though I have been single for a while now, and yes I won’t lie, I do complain and say things like im lonely but, god has given me good friends (YJ, SH, Amira, Joelle & KX ) and a good class (E37Q). Seriously love this class TTM. I need to be thankful of what I have now or it will be taken away from me. Don’t take things for granted.
Lastly.. (I may gain more haters because of this.. BUT)
Why do people want to go around and hate people? Don’t they find it tiring, at all? I mean, saying I hate you, I hate him, I hate her for your whole life.. Doesn’t seems like much fun to me. Instead, why don’t people appreciate what god has given them and live their life to the fullest. Think about this.. If you go around taking people’s friends or loved one away, do you think god will give you more? Since you are taking others’ ’belongings’ away?
So, after typing so much.. The key messages to this are actually:
1) Life is fair (when there is good, there will be bad)
2) Appreciate what god has given you or it will be taken away
3) Don’t go around hating people and make your life difficult, instead, try to be happy everyday (real happy not fake happy) and be thankful of what god (or your family) has given you.
PS: when I say god, I mean all religions. It doesn’t matter if you are a Muslim, Christian, Buddhist or even a Jew.. Appreciate what your god has given you & take Alderian Therapy if possible. It is very important!
& to readers who read through this WHOLE thing, you’re awesome as you have a high patience level to long-windedness! & you have just read 685 words.