" Be who you are & say what you feel because those
who mind dont matter & those who matter dont mind "

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Hi, my name is jesslyn :D I'm a extremist, sometimes crazy, hyper & random.. Sometimes emo & quiet. I first cried on 260992.& I ♥ music & japanese food

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angela* amanda* bena* jeslyn* joelyn* joelle* kaixin* pohlern* shuhao* yujun* yz* ophelia* nxsa* mira*

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shuhui*

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cheesie* holly jean* xiaxue*

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what you see is what you get
Saturday, November 6, 2010, 2:35 PM

Everyone has their cons.. To last in a r/s, you have two options:
1) Accept his/her cons, no matter what.. or,
2) Only accept someone if you know them fully & can accept his/her cons

I choose number two (thus the bubble i put up.)

Cause, what you see is what u'll get. For example, if u buy a soft toy & stare at it daily, it wouldn't change to another soft toy, would it? even if it did change, it wouldn't be the soft toy that caught your eyes.. So, whats the point? Love someone as they are & dont try to change them.. If you really dont like that particular bad point, leave.

& heres a stolen quote from ophelia:
" I’m sorry I constantly want to talk to you. I’m sorry when you take long to reply, I get sad. I’m sorry if I say things that might piss you off. I’m sorry if I come off as annoying. I’m sorry if you don’t wanna talk to me as much as I wanna talk to you. I’m sorry if I think about you too much and too often. I’m sorry if I say things I don’t really mean. I’m sorry if I tell you about my pointless drama when you don’t really care. I’m sorry if I come off as being clingy, but its just me missing you."